Wednesday, May 06, 2009
''it's not easy to have both parties holding a kitchen job.''
Sometimes I also hope for days when Andrey&I can spend quality time,
doing things, spend a day together, like any other couple.
But time dont allow us to.
Of course I do treasure & love the short moments we 've spent when we can,
which we have been doing for the past 6 months.
but afterall I'm also a normal girl who yearns for some pamper, sometimes.
In any case Baby, there's no need to doubt yourself.
Im happy with you, seriously.
Sincerely, hope that things' over at his side right now will be over soon.
I understand, and I'll be here(:
I respect all the Fathers who holds a job as a Chef,
and at the same time had successfully built good r/s in his Family.
12 hours of work every 6 days in a week.
Managing work and family well enough, is not as easy as you people think.
And having communication & close r/s with their children, is much more challenging.
*Salut*
Maya's pregnant, and she's gna resign to takecare of her child after giving birth.
At the same time, sharing with me her financial problem if she's gna stop working..
Chee Huat (her hsuband) got to work doubly hard for the family & needs.
this really makes me want to find another job with a higher pay, despite less satisfaction & happiness I got from working in my current industry..
Now, we're not talking about just happiness in your work.. or money-faced.
I never like to work because of earning money..
That's why I stepped into this culinary industry.
Till this year, everything happened around me, really makes my brain keep running..
I know my priority of all priorities are my current & future family.
Im beginning to understand, what is 'working for the family'.
It's never about 'are you being the happiest person doing the job you love' already.
It's about being satisfied with your job, and the money you've earned can meet your needs.
I hope my closed ones will understand & support my decision in time to come.
Sometimes, or rather often, I hate to live in such a high-demand country.
With complicated stuffs and over-priced things, compared to other countries,
It's really hard on us, people.
And thus people become more self-centred, just to get what they wish to achieve.
This is where all the back-stabbers appeared, dont you think so?
Families breaking up because of money.
Children suffered.
and the list goes on & on..
Is there a need to in the first place?
Allow me to be a kampung girl.
Back then..
Everything's so true & simple.
But then again, this is the world we're living in, right now, at this moment..
Accept it, think positive.
I will be your pillar of support, SMILE(:
Yi Jun blogged at 2:30 AM
